Episode 10: Marriage Q&A with “The Spark Guy” (AKA My Husband!)
In Episode 10, I’m sitting down with my husband, Matt – a relationship coach who goes by “The Spark Guy” (check him out on Instagram @thesparkguy) – to answer YOUR questions about marriage. Although we never claim to have a perfect marriage, we’ve been happily married for nearly 9 years, and it’s safe to say we’ve learned a few things along the way… today, we’re pulling back the curtain and diving into the nitty-gritty!
In addition to discussing our own marriage, we’ll share some general advice based on what we’ve observed and experienced (this is where Matt SHINES, y’all!). This episode is for you if you’re interested in learning about our marriage – what works and what doesn’t, how we keep the fire burning bright, etc – and if you’re looking for insight and information on what it looks like to have a healthy, flourishing relationship that’s built to last.
In this episode, we cover:
How we knew it was the right time to get married [5:40]
If we were nervous or had any doubts about marriage [7:50]
Important conversations to have prior to marriage that may be difficult [9:45]
Whether or not we want to/plan to have children [12:30]
Our favorite physical traits and personality traits in one another [18:15]
If we’ve ever had “bad” or “serious” fights and how we move through disagreements as a couple [21:38]
How Lynette handles feelings of jealousy/insecurity as a wife [27:45]
Our respective love languages [31:35]
The main reason divorce would have been a possibility for us in the past [33:55]
How Matt handled Lynette becoming the primary income provider [38:05]
The ways in which we have improved upon our individual weaknesses to be better partners [40:36]
How we align when it comes to the frequency of physical intimacy [46:10]
Keeping things spicy in the bedroom [52:18]
Handling (and overcoming) dry spells [53:53]
How to bring up conversations about lack of satisfaction in the bedroom [57:45]
Building trust in marriage and creating boundaries with the opposite sex [1:00:50]
Knowing when to keep trying and when to walk away [1:05:18]
Keeping the spark alive in your relationship (#doalittleextra – courtesy of The Spark Guy!) [1:09:50]
Learn more about Matt’s relationship coaching: https://solo.to/thesparkguy/
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